F*ck It We’re Getting Married!

Ashton & Jeff

May 13th, 2026

Once upon a time…

On May 13th, 2005, outside a bar in Puerto Banús, Jeff asked Ashton to be his girlfriend. And now, 21 years later, Ashton is proving that patience really does pay off. This day has been a long time coming and is now a dream come true, and we couldn’t imagine celebrating it without our favorite people.

We’ve planned three days that bring together everything we love most — YOU, the beach, live music, singing, dancing, golf, endless food, flowing wine, sangria, and of course tequila. Our wedding day will be held at our favorite beach bar, followed by a recovery day of sangria, relaxation and hopefully sunshine, and finally a golf day filled with fun, laughter, prizes, more food, and drinks.

This celebration means the world to us — and we can’t imagine celebrating without you by our side.

Here’s to creating more unforgettable memories together.

The Wedding

Weds 13th May

7:30pm till late

Da Sergio
Avenida Andasol, Urb. Andasol,
s/n, 29604 Playa, Málaga

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Sorry guys, but we do have a request on the dress code - Earth tone & soft, pale colors only — think beiges, browns, rusts, tans, olives, muted greens, dusty rose, pale blue, and other natural shades.
🚫 Please, no bright colors, no black, and no cream. Also, No hats, please.

The Day After

Thurs 14th May

From 12pm

Relax, recharge & recover with us the day after— with food, sangria, swimming, & hopefully sunshine. Come anytime from 12pm if you fancy it!

Da Sergio
Avenida Andasol, Urb. Andasol,
s/n, 29604 Playa, Málaga

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The Golf Day

Friday 15th May

You’re invited to join us for our Golf Day, a Texas Scramble Team Game—one of our favorite things to do together!

We have 8 tee times (32 players total) with teams of 4.

It’s €100 per player which includes your green fee, buggy, prizes & food after. There will be team prizes + extras like Longest Drive & Nearest the Pin!

Not a golfer? No worries! Join us after at H19, the golf club restaurant— for continued celebrations.

Please RSVP Here if you would like to Play?

Santa Maria Golf Club
A7 Km 1033, Elviria, 29604 Marbella

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We need your help.

After all this time Jeff is still dodging the dance floor… help us change that!

We want to build the ultimate wedding soundtrack and need your go-to songs — the ones that make you sing at the top of your lungs, dance like nobody’s watching, and bring back the best memories we’ve shared. Add as many as you like — if it comes from you, it’s the perfect.

Add Your Music!

Are you in?

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PLEASE LET US KNOW IF YOU CAN MAKE IT

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